Love is not a feeling! It’s not an emotion.
It has nothing to do with whether it’s a good day or a bad one. It has zero to do with how you have been treated. Yes, there’s an emotional response or feeling to being loved but that in itself isn’t what love is.
If love were to be based on feelings, most couples would have ended up in a divorce. This is because even though you love your spouse, you don’t always feel loved.
If you feed this feeling of the moment, a lot of damage may happen in the relationship.
You must realise that love is a choice. It’s a decision. You are to love your spouse whether you feel like it or not.
The idea is not to say, “I don’t have feelings for you anymore.”
If you want to find out more about how to show love to your spouse even when they don’t deserve it, then this episode is for you!
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